When William and Steve met at Side by Side, they were both learning how to navigate life after brain injury. What they found in each other was more than a partner for daily tasks—it was a friendship that has helped them both grow.
“Working and just doing the stuff we do every day—documenting in spreadsheets, writing the numbers down, making change—all of that has helped the healing,” volunteer, and brain injury survivor, Steve reflects. For member William, those routines brought confidence: mastering the routine, then mastering the skills, and starting to open up more.
The two share plenty of laughs—Steve teases William about being a “curmudgeon,” which William proudly chalks up to his New York roots. They swap football rivalries, talk about their favorite shows, and give each other the encouragement to keep going. Behind the joking is a deep respect. William says, “We have a lot of the same interests. He gives me the confidence to do what I’m doing.”
Their friendship is a testament that healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens in community. Both men draw purpose from being present for their families and setting a good example for their kids. For Steve, who described life before his injury as a blur of work, travel, and raising children, life after his injury gave him perspective. “When you’re raising a family and dealing with your own problems, all of that is kind of all you see,” Steve shares. “When something unexpected happens, it really makes you count your blessings and appreciate there’s more to life than your own little world.”
What surprised volunteer Steve most about Side by Side? “Very few people here feel sorry for themselves about what happened. They accept it, they’re going to make the best of it, and they’re working hard.” That spirit, Steve says, makes this place different from anywhere else.
Member William agrees. Side by Side has not only helped him stay active but has also connected him with people who matter. “It surprised me how friendly the people were. Being around people with the same problems that I went through—it makes you feel less alone.”
Side by Side isn’t a hospital. It’s a community where people practice, grow, and find hope. For William and Steve, they find joy in showing up, trying new things, and supporting each other through the journey.
— William and Steve